How To Win Your Arguments

There are several strategies which can be employed in order to win your arguments.

One is to state your view then immediately run in circles with your fingers in your ears while shouting “la la la, not listening!” This can be very effective if you can sing very loudly (as can I), or you have plenty of stamina and a higher boredom threshold than those you are arguing against.

Another is to state that there’s no point trying to discuss something with someone whose mind is so obviously closed. This tactic provides no substance but is a useful exercise in meaningless point-scoring, and can sometimes lend an air of superiority to a stance which only really deserves attention from The Point And Laugh Brigade.

A better strategy is to ensure that your argument has a substantial logical basis and is presented in an appropriate way, and there are some books which can help you with this.

For a gently humorous exploration of the subject, you’ll not find better than Madsen Pirie’s How to Win Every Argument: The Use and Abuse of Logic. It’s an easy read; it’s entertaining, well-written, and witty; and it’s very informative.

Anthony Weston’s Rulebook for Arguments is a slim book which provides a slightly more serious read and discusses the various forms an argument can take.

If, however, you’re prepared to go really hard-core then The Trivium: The Liberal Arts of Logic, Grammar and Rhetoric by Sister Miriam Joseph is the book for you. It is dry and dense and at times almost impenetrable: I doubt it contains a single joke. But it’s rock-solid, rigorous, and absolutely reliable and if you’re brave enough to tackle it, it is a fascinating and transforming read.

What do any of these books have to do with publishing? Not much. But if a writer cannot formulate a coherent and logical argument then at best they’re going to make themselves look foolish and at worst they’re going to fail, no matter which genre they favour.

6 Responses to How To Win Your Arguments
  1. behlerblog
    March 15, 2010 | 2:50 pm

    That's it, Smith, you're fired. Now all my authors will read these books and argue with me on edits, cover design, promotion, marketing…La la la…I'm not listening…

  2. catdownunder
    March 15, 2010 | 8:40 pm

    No, come on Lynn YOU do the arguing and win!

  3. Imogen
    March 16, 2010 | 1:50 pm

    I've always been grateful to my grandfather for giving me a copy of "Straight and Crooked Thinking" by Robert Thouless when I was about fourteen; but I know its prose-style may be a bit out of date. Thanks for the recommendations for something a little more up to the minute!I love my word verification word – "satorip". Satori-p? The mind boggles…

  4. Josa
    February 26, 2011 | 10:50 am

    May be heading for an argument. Will prepare myself.

  5. Sam
    July 24, 2011 | 10:18 pm

    Jane,

    When is your book about the trivium going to be available again for purchase? If you have an extra copy I would like to buy it.

    Thanks, Sam

  6. Scooter Carlyle
    July 25, 2011 | 6:09 pm

    My dad likes to argue as a form of entertainment, but hates losing. If he senses the other person has the upper hand, he throws a logically perverse cherry bomb into the conversation, and then watches with extreme self-satisfaction as mayhem unfolds.

    He can never quite understand why anyone would be offended by that particular technique.

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